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[quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand. Does he pay any joint expenses? What are they relative to what you pay? It feels really strange to me to approach finances this separately. I don’t have a joint checking account with my spouse but I still view our expenses as shared. We each pay various bills from our separate accounts, but we share a joint savings and investments, so maybe that makes it feel less separate. E.g., he pays the entirely of childcare costs and I pay the mortgage (which is more, but I make more), but I wouldn’t think to say “he pays all childcare costs” as though I don’t contribute. I guess it depends on what your DH is paying but I don’t think we’ve gotten a clear answer on that. [/quote]
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