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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A stepmom who was the home wrecker would never come on here and admit to anything; they are amoral liars and make up a scenario to fit their fake narrative.[/quote]

The "home wrecker" and the only person who "broke up the marriage" was the person in the marriage who decided to cheat.

Your anger is misplaced.

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No, I responded to the op’s question, that a stepmom/dad who was first the ap, would never come on here to respond. Are you an AP and feel you have no blame in the breakup of a marriage, only the married person is at fault? [/quote]

I'm happily married - never cheated or been cheated on.

But my DH and I are the ones who made our vows. Not some other 3rd party. Any issues in our marriage and home would be our own making.

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I have always wondered why people think it's okay to sleep with married people and I think I'm starting to understand it. When you think that marriage is about the promise to make good choices, and not about the importance of respecting and not harming another human being (in this case your spouse), then being the AP is not contributing to breaking up the marriage. You are seriously harming another person, but not breaking a promise to not harm. If you didn't promise not to hurt somebody, it's okay if you hurt them.

Interesting.

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