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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. Fear of getting caught.[/quote] woman here.. my DH knows that if he did cheat, I would somehow find out. He's careless, and I'm very perceptive, plus I control the finances. If he did cheat, he knows that I would divorce him, and take half the assets. He wants to retire early really badly (and he is on track to do that). But, if he had to split his assets, he knows he can kiss his early retirement goodbye. He knows I can be ruthless.[/quote] Must me awesome knowing he loves you so much.[/quote] PP here.. I know he loves me. We just celebrated 20 years of marriage and have a decent marriage. It's not all rainbows and puppy dogs, but it's solid. We still have sex, and we're in our 50. He is very loving, but he knows how I am. Trust and fidelity are very important to me. He knows that. Once that's broken, he knows there's no going back. Plus, his dad cheated on his mom when he was an older teen, and he saw what his mom went through, and vowed he'd never to do that. To this day, he doesn't like his dad that much (though there are other things that contributed to it). He vowed to be a different father and husband than his dad.[/quote]
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