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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Double up on your birth control. This would be unacceptable to me. [/quote] This. [/quote] Creepy how many people quoted and agreed with this. I'm guessing you're all childless women? Because I'm in my 40s and quite a few girlfriends who admit they themselves and/or their husbands had drinking issues before the first baby. All of them calmed down after the first baby was born – a couple of the husbands became teetotalers. Kids make you grow up, kids make you want to be a better person. Again, hard to believe anyone with children would tell you to "double" birth control or avoid having a baby at 30. Yeah, wait another few years for all of your healthy eggs to be gone. :roll: [/quote] OP's DH drinks 6-7 drinks on weekdays and more on weekends. That is more than a "drinking issue." It is not a future child's responsibility to make their father "grow up" or "want to be a better person." A child deserves to be born to parents who are ready, willing, and able to parent responsibly. https://americanaddictioncenters.org/alcoholism-treatment/alcoholic-father ~ Adult child of alcoholics[/quote]
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