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[quote=Anonymous]Op, yes of course many of us deal with a spouse with different spending habits, you are not alone, that's for sure. Neither me or my spouse overspend drastically but like in your case, what we spend on in discretionary spending are different things. He will spend on good wine, cigars, coffee, hobbies, etc. I don't spend on any of those things and the wine and cigars used to really bug me. But then I thought about it and realized, the guy works his ass off, it's his money too and these are his pleasures. We can have different interests as long as we stay on track with broader goals. If she is using what she bought and you benefit from the great meals and new supplies...try to let it go. Try to pick your battles and listen to her perspective. [/quote]
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