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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The best advice would be to stop worrying about finding a guy and start building a life for yourself where you don't need one. Give yourself the life you want, socially, financially, etc. so there isn't a single thing you need from a man you are married to.

After you do that, you start spending time with men simply because you enjoy their company. Don't worry about whether you are going to get married. Focus on having fun with them today and whether you want to have fun with them tomorrow. Stop focusing on how much money they make, where they live, what kind of job they have. That won't be a concern because you have already provided those things for yourself.

You'd be surprised what decent, kind, amazing men are available out there, even at 37, when you stop needing them to be certain things for you and focus on whether or not you truly enjoy them as people and whether they are emotionally healthy enough to be good partners. Stop worrying about whether a guy has marriage potential every moment you are with them. Kinda amazing how if you do that, the rest seems to take care of itself. [/quote]

And once you do all that you realize you don’t need a man lol[/quote]

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