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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lol you're a morin. Ask your kids what they would prefer.... You to pay for their wedding and a house but you get divorced and are still miserable. OR you don't provide those things but get a less stressful job and don't completely ruin their lives with a divorce.

I'm with your DH. It seems like you guys could still have a nice life if you took a lower stress job.   It's not like he's forcing you to stay in your job. I also don't get why you married him. [/quote]

Because he is handsome and funny, and when I expressed reservations to friends or family about his earning potential everyone called me shallow. The people calling me shallow are all married to high earners, btw.  I was dumb not to level with myself about my values. Huge, life ruining mistake. [/quote]

It was not the place of your family and friends to talk you out of this marriage.  You need to own your choices.[/quote]

What part of me acknowledging I made a huge, life ruining mistake not owning my choices? Giving context is not shirking accountability.[/quote]

You have made multiple angry references to conversations you had with your friends and family before the wedding and how you felt they didn’t dissuade you, as if that was their responsibility.  It wasn’t.[/quote]

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