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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lol you're a morin. Ask your kids what they would prefer.... You to pay for their wedding and a house but you get divorced and are still miserable. OR you don't provide those things but get a less stressful job and don't completely ruin their lives with a divorce.

I'm with your DH. It seems like you guys could still have a nice life if you took a lower stress job.   It's not like he's forcing you to stay in your job. I also don't get why you married him. [/quote]

Because he is handsome and funny, and when I expressed reservations to friends or family about his earning potential everyone called me shallow. The people calling me shallow are all married to high earners, btw.  I was dumb not to level with myself about my values. Huge, life ruining mistake. [/quote]

It was not the place of your family and friends to talk you out of this marriage.  You need to own your choices.[/quote]

What part of me acknowledging I made a huge, life ruining mistake not owning my choices? Giving context is not shirking accountability.[/quote]

Because you blame other people for why you made that mistake!   [/quote]

I do not blame them. I allowed myself to be influenced by them when I should have been honest with many self about what is important to me. I own it. Can we get off that part now? 
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Nah. I still think you're an awful person who is selfish and just wants everyone to pity her. You're extremely unlikable [/quote]

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