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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Wow, quite a response.  I get it that my post sounded really bad.  I’m sorry.  No one is talking about or even thinking about leaving the marriage.  It is clear that even though my wife currently has no evidence of cancer the ongoing treatment continues to have a profound affect.  I was simply asking if anyone has been through this, had similar treatments, and how can I do better.  I admit I was frustrated last night about other issues and the way I described the situation really sounded like I was looking for a way out.  I’m not.  You are right, searching on line especially about medical issues can often lead to unreasonable expectations and trouble.  Thanks for your responses, both those that point out my callousness and those that made suggestions.  [/quote]

OP, I am the BC survivor that has posted several times.  I'm also a BC support mentor to patients undergoing treatment.  I feel what you're going through, and thanks for clarifying your point, especially for the other PPs who rushed to judgment about an impending divorce.  Cancer affects the caregiver immensely, and in a way that's not always recognized because so much attention is paid to the patient, rightfully so.  Please look into support resources, online or otherwise.  If you're in the DC area, Inova has a Life with Cancer Center in Fairfax and Fair Oaks (and possibly other locations) that offers counseling, classes, etc.  They will take your concerns seriously (including how to support your wife at this time), unlike some of the nutters on here who haven't walked in your shoes and were quick to tell you how awful you are.[/quote]

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