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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be available and make it subtly known you are, but let him pursue.  Men like (need) the chase.  They are simple beasts when you get down to these details. [/quote]

Is this 1950?  Terrible advice.[/quote]

Terrible and misogynist.[/quote]

It's actually deeply feminist in that it saves the woman from feeling pathetic and rejected.

It's really not about what men like.  It's that if a man doesn't ask you out, in 99% of all cases he doesn't want to.  [/quote]

This is a hell of a post.  So, only men should feel pathetic and rejected?

There are plenty of reasons why men wouldn't ask out a woman, including fear of rejection.  Another is concern that it would be seen as harassment towards the woman, especially if it is in a workplace setting.  It has been drilled into men's heads over the past several decades that women don't appreciate unwelcome advances.  Guess which segment of guys that are taking this advice to heart.  It isn't the a-holes.[/quote]

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