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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was a slob before marriage and children.  But never cleaning, like not scrubbing bathroom ever, never vacuuming, never cooking, oh that will never change.  Will be hard for you with children unless you can afford a weekly housekeeper plus carryout for 4 every night for dinner. I'd bail unless you have a lot of money.[/quote]

OP here. I have high HHI but I’m not going to rider out every night. First, it’s unhealthy, and secondly, I want to teach future kids how to cook. I don’t do all the deep cleaning but I do my own laundry, cook, load and empty dishwasher, hand wash dishes, and clean up the house. Her housekeeper does all of the deep cleaning. I was not a messy person and didn’t think I needed a housekeeper every week. I might have to if I want to make this work.

I don’t want to break up because it’s not a deal breaker for me. I love everything else about her. [/quote]

It sounds like you aren’t compatible.  What exactly do you like about her?[/quote]

OP here. Well, she’s fit, hot, and has big boobs. She’s very good in bed! Besides looks and sex, she’s very passionate about her job. She’s smart, passionate, ambitious, fun, funny, adventurous, great with kids, enjoys the same hobbies, etc. She’s very kind and generous to everyone. She’s a good tipper ( even with poor service) and goes out of her way to be nice to those she cares about. My family and friends loves her. This is really her only negative I don’t like. It’s not a deal breaker, but it’s irritating. [/quote]

Well, none of that is important after you have kids, except being great with kids when she sees some.  After kids, she is exhausted, chubby, hair in greasy frizz bun, and no time for adventure or hobbies.  Just work, get kids, dinner, laundry, homework, get kids ready for bed, you all bed.  Every day.  I can't even watch TV ever.  I have no time.  I don't even sit on our couch.  I have 1 kid.[/quote]

This is not all women. I know several moms who have multiple kids and are still attractive, fit, and fun. They go on regular date nights with their husbands. It’s important to have a strong connection before you have kids. That’s what keeps things going when kids are young and things are hard. [/quote]

It's also important not to be a filthy pig.[/quote]

The fir and hot part won't last long on a lazy person.  My friend is extremely lazy.  Once she had kids she fell apart.  The kids are fat because all they eat is fast food.  She does work but basically sits on he couch all day long and so do the kids.  [/quote]

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