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It hit me hard when you said he now sees how great your kids are. That's a decade of trust right there. Not sure I could recover from that alone. Other suggest more therapy, more talking, more everything. I'm exhausted for you. I'd dip out of therapy and let him continue solo. Therapist should guide him from here. There's not much more you can contribute. It's his turn to do the work. You need to get back to the business of you. He must start walking the talk, first and foremost with your kids. He needs to earn their trust back. You need to feel secure that you can trust him to be the dad he wasn't. For now, don't think in terms of a timeline. Get to a point where you can like him again. Trust facilitates love, whatever that may be in this stage of your lives. I hope it happens for you. But you also seem very capable if it doesn't.

Sorry for the lengthy response. 💕[/quote]

+1 He needs to do his own work and you need space. Maybe even consider living apart for a while and go for less, but more successful time together.

Trust more than anything else takes significant time to regain.[/quote]

Take a break from bearing the emotional and mental load of this relationship. The relationship will be better off. [/quote]

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