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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So a genuine question:  does non-binary mean that they could become trans or that they remain who they are but may show characteristics of "other" gender?  Could they also be gay as well?

I think OP has a lot to think about and has to live through a lot of uncertainty.  Definitely get a counselor but also make her own decision somewhat quickly on next steps.  I think they will take some time to process their thoughts and this could be stressful for OP unless she makes a decision for herself on the path to take.  [/quote]

No one can answer this, and probably OPs DH cannot even answer this right now. Feeling that you are a different gender may or may not have anything to do with sexual attraction.

This thread is horrifying in the ignorance it shows. I’m sure if OPs DH could have explored this in middle school, they wouldn’t have to blow up their life right now, but here they are. No one wants to hurt the people they love, but also no one wants to live the rest of their lives in a skin that doesn’t feel happy or right to them. I know the DCUM way is to suck everything up, and remain bitter, unhappy, and judgemental, but that isn’t to everyone. OP absolutely deserves to move forward with her life, but the advice here, as usual, seems to tend towards the nuclear option. She doesn’t need to process or move quickly. She needs to take the time and temps that are appropriate to her. No one is in danger. Yes, it will be stressful for OP, but so will divorce or anything else she does.

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What I love about these discussions the very most are the self anointed experts who invariably arrive to announce that everyone else is ignorant... and then proceed to explain that of course the husband needs to invent his own personal gender in order to feel comfortable in his skin and that this trumps any obligation to his wife, kids, anyone.

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Some people are so confident in the rightness of their views, they’re afraid to even have the topic discussed here. [/quote]

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