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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hypothetical question, in a marriage, do you ladies think kids come first, or spouse? Bc if any woman is not willing to put their spouse first, it is going to cause a problem, and even though BF is not a spouse, if she aspires to have one, this issue is going to arise. There are not a lot of men who will tolerate being second to kids, especially someone else’s kids, once married.[/quote] In marriage, kids and spouses are a triad- all have to be taken care of equally for the family to flourish. In second marriage or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, kids first, then BF/GF, by a lot. I think married Dads get this, but boyfriends/stepdads do not. [/quote] I would add this is only true for minor children.[/quote] No. It’s not if you want to be in your grand children’s lives.[/quote]
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