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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You will not regret it. You will look back at it as the best decision of your and your kid's life.[/quote]

Maybe your life, but not your kids.

I don't regret divorcing, but I will regret the pain I inflicted on my kids for the rest of my life.

And no, there's no way to avoid inflicting pain on your kids. [/quote]

[b]I do not regret pain that the divorce caused my kids[/b], as they didn't deserve to witness his abuse. [/quote]

Ok so you’re a sociopath then.[/quote]

No. I’m able to recognize that the pain it saved them was greater than the pain of living in an abusive situation.

But go ahead, mock abused women, that’s cool. [/quote]

Ok, so you’re a sociopath who uses “abuse” as a pretext for not caring about the pain you inflicted on your kids then. And “oh the kids are better off” is the rationalization every sociopath uses for doing exactly what the sociopath wants to do.[/quote]

Give it a rest.  No victim leaves an "abuser" because they are a "sociopath."  That's victim blaming.  You misread her post anyway.  What she was trying to say is despite the pain of divorce, she didn't want to subject her kids to witnessing the abuse anymore.[/quote]

+1 Exactly right.[/quote]

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