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[quote=Anonymous]I'm on the other side of this man whose wife has come out. It hurts.    And for some reason, people think I'm not supposed to hurt.  They think I should be happy because  "it's not me",  and "at least she didn't cheat". All those times she didn't want to sleep with me or complained about what I was doing, weren't really about me.  That's great, right? It doesn't feel great. It doesn't feel great to know that the life you built with someone was a total lie. It doesn't feel great to know that the person you love, never loved you in the way you thougt they did.  But I'm selfish for thinking this way.   I wonder if she just used me to have kids. I'm supposed to be happy she's brave enough to live her truth and find her happiness. Maybe someday I will get there, but right now I resent her a lot and find it hard to be around her except when I have to be because of our kids. Thankfully the kids are young enough that none of this seems to be affecting them.  So great for your friends, OP I hope your friend's husbands are doing better than I am.[/quote]

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