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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of my crushes are celebrities / people I’ll never meet so that’s harmless. In fact, it helps fuel fantasy and that helps my marriage. I find one of my husband’s friends cute, and think it’s mutual, but it never goes past things like “oh, your new haircut is great” or something like that. [/quote]

Celebrity crushes are normal. Crushes on your spouse's friends crossed a boundary imo as does flirting with them, but that's just my stance other people conduct their relationships differently.[/quote]

I’m the pp who wrote the post. I don’t say anything “flirty” over text, and never see the friend without my husband, so I think that helps keep boundaries. Now he’s on the other side of the country. We did have a multi-hour chat the other day: mostly on topics like our parents’ health, racism etc so nothing flirty there! A lot of how my crush manifests is I’m constantly trying to think of someone to set him up with - or was before he moved. My friends are mostly married moms though. [/quote]

Boundaries are good.  Why are you ordering over getting him married off though?[/quote]

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