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[quote=Anonymous]As a Black mother of three multiracial children, no, I would not allow my kids to be around Aunt Becky. While I agree that people can change, it does not seem like Aunt Becky has made any attempts to engage your family within the past 20 years. As others have stated, the onus is not on you, nor your children, to engage and educate someone who has made disparaging remarks about you and your people. If MIL wants to make a point to her old friend, as someone suggested above, that should not require your children being present and being used to convince someone that their train of thought was and is (if Aunt Becky has not changed) racist. Your MIL should know better and have declined the invitation from the get go. For her to put you in the position of being the reason the kids can't go makes me scratch my head. [/quote]
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