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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a cousin whom I truly love who fits this description.  It took her over 5 years to finish undergrad at her private college (her parents paid all her educational costs).  She then went straight to grad school, finished, did an internship for maybe 6 weeks (this is the only time she ever worked, other than occasional babysitting) before her fiancée accepted an out of state fellowship.  She quit and moved with him, planned their wedding then promptly got pregnant.  Her parents financially helped her while her husband finished his residency and fellowship, including paying for a night nurse/nanny for about the first year of each kids’ life.  She put all three kids in full-day school as soon as they were old enough and kept them in aftercare.  She sleeps in, naps, hangs out with friends, then order Uber-eats most nights. Her husband does at least 50% of childcare even though he’s a practicing doctor and she SAH.  Her parents pay for whatever “extras” she wants that her husband can’t/won’t buy.

She’s super sweet and I love her dearly, but every time we’re together I’m blown away that she doesn’t do more (like take her kids on outings) with all her spare time.
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Jealous much? She doesn't sound spoiled lazy, more like lucky and rationally taking advantage of that. [/quote]

NP. Are you seriously defending someone for literally taking advantage of their spouse, who makes their secure lifestyle possible, works hard, and then does 50% more childcare and household duties on top of that?

Imagine instead of talking about a lazy wife and a working/parenting/housekeeping husband we were talking about a lazy husband and a working/parenting/housekeeping wife. I’ll bet you’d have something to say then, you massive hypocrite.[/quote]
Yes, taking 5 years to graduate is normal, not lazy. Leaving grad school for something better is not lazy. Marrying rich is lucky, and marrying someone soon to be rich is smart. Outsourcing work if you can afford it is smart. Maybe her husband wants to be involved with his kids, but your making it sound like he's doing it bc she left a vacuum. I'm jealous of her life, sheesh.[/quote]

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