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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's odd that you think being comfortable in a bikini is "bettering" yourself or that not wanting to wear one is a "problem."  However, given that it seems to be a goal of yours for some reason, I think you should go for it and you will get more comfortable over time.  I am typically self-conscious when I first go out in anything revealing (bikini, low-cut shirt, tight dress, whatever) but I relax after I've had it on for a while and realize no one really cares.

I would probably start with a one-piece and work up to the bikini, but it's up to you.  Right now there are a lot of high-waisted bikini bottoms on the market that cover more of your stomach, which could also be a bit of a middle ground too.  I am bigger-chested and I prefer triangle-style tops with the strings because they are easier to adjust to ensure the right support, although if you are smaller-chested that may not be a concern.  Feeling like my chest is not supported makes me super self-conscious and I end up tugging at the top the whole time.

Personally, I wear one-pieces to swim with my kids and save bikinis for kid-free beach/pool outings (fairly rare these days).  With the kids I'm always bending over, carrying them around, lifting them in and out of the pool and I don't trust my bikinis to stay secure during those activities.  But that's my preference (also somewhat related to being bigger-chested).[/quote]

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