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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My son just kept darting into the road and wouldn't hold hands. One time too many and he almost got hit by a car. I swatted his butt and it never happened again. He held my hand like an angel forevermore. [/quote] This seems like a pretty common refrain. When parents who havent spanked finally do it for something serious, it actually really works. Surprising.[/quote] It's absolutely the lazy way. If you have a child with actual impulse control issues like ADHD or ASD, spanking won't work and will make it worse. If you have an NT child, you can train them without spanking. OTOH, I don't blame a parent who hits their child out of fear/surprise when they do something really dangerous. I just think it's self-serving bullsh*t to claim it's good parenting or the only way.[/quote]
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