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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I am a problem drinker (married, kids) but I modulate the amount I drink given the company. I can drink a bottle of wine by myself, but no one knows. In the company of my MIL, who is a teetotaler, we drink lemonade. If I meet relatives or friends, I have the appropriate amount (like 1-3 drinks). I would never swill unchecked while everyone around me was not drinking. I had a boyfriend who once did this at my parents house. It was a major red flag. The guy was a serious alcoholic (as opposed to the category of “problem drinker” I put myself in) Because I was in my 20s I couldn’t quite get it at the time. We were coming off college years where drinking to excess was common. My dad, who lived as an ex-pat amid heavy drinking culture, spotted that this guy was a problem. Long story short, I dumped his sorry ass and never looked back. My advice: RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!! It only gets worse[/quote]
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