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Reply to "“It’s not my fault you guys got divorced!”"
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[quote=Anonymous]Those asking why does a child need to know, because likely the child thinks his/her parents didn't love him/her enough to stay together. They internalize this. They think there's something they could have done to stop it. By telling them that this is not about them, that nothing they could have done would have saved it, takes a burden off of them. Now would I go into detail? No. But those claiming that affairs might have happened after sexless marriages, I'm sure some have, but all the ones I knew didn't. The men were getting it regularly from wife and from AP. In a way, hiding the truth is gas lighting them. They sense that something is wrong. They might sense hurt, betrayal, struggle, and you're coming along being like: all is fine here, nothing is wrong, move on. That's not OK. [/quote]
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