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[quote=Anonymous]Definitely therapy for you, probably couples therapy and maybe therapy for him as well. And I’m not even a big fan of therapy! Your expectations for a long term relationship sound unrealistic. Are you really saying you can’t respect a man unless he makes good money and is thin? What about kindness, integrity, etc? If it’s more that you just can’t listen to him kvetch about how much academia sucks any more….that’s fair. You may need couples therapy to figure out a way you can be supportive of his feelings without drowning in his dislike of his job. Also, FYI…the next decade or two for you is going to be Rough. Late 40s is not kind to women on the hormonal or professional front. So in 2031, it may well be you in a serious slump at work and carrying a spare tire around the belly. [/quote]
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