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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get him a 20th anniversary gift - present him with a stack of divorce paperwork. I really don't know how people reconcile. It's really just the betrayed spouse sucking it up - forever. Give yourself the gift of freedom, breathing room, independence. I divorced, and after the initial pain and despair, life is better than I ever imagined. You never have to feel the sense of dread on your anniversary again. I feel a twinge of... something. Nostalgia for the good old days. But he will never cheat on ME again. [/quote] I agree, especially if one is younger. However, women in their late 40's, 50's often can't divorce. Maybe because of retirement around the corner, a SN child, or even health issues. It's not always cut and dry. This past year has been hard, many couldn't divorce even if they wanted to. OP will never have a real wedding anniversary because of what he did. [/quote]
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