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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a hard time with our wedding anniversary after finding out about my husband’s affair and it isn’t even in the same season as the day I found out about his affair. It’s awful and I get it, OP. I don’t know how much reading or therapy you have done, but you experienced a significant trauma on that day and the body keeps the score. It remembers. Grief anniversaries are real. I asked for very specific details and dates and now even some of those dates cause me trouble. Affairs are tremendous betrayal and break trust completely causing you to wonder if the person you married is the same person. I went through a phase when I thought I was fine, but in some ways it gets harder. I’m only one year out, but I was told it takes 2-5 years to recover though I will never forget it.[/quote] 2-5 years was about right for me, I’m afraid. I hope you find peace.0[/quote]
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