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[quote=Anonymous]My sister has borderline.  She’s been to rehab for alcohol three times.  She’s currently sober (at least we think so) and has had tons of therapy so she has improved.  The last 20 years are filled with instances where my family and I cannot do anything right, we walk on eggshells and she gets mad at us no matter what we do.  Example, my family and cousin’s family are going to family vacation home for a weekend.  I call sister weeks ahead and invite her family to join.  She’s wishy, washy, then finally declines at last minute because her DD seems to be coming down with a bug.  Then, I get hateful texts and tearful calls all weekend for excluding her family and always wanting to hang out with cousin instead of her.  No amount of reason or logic will convince her that she was invited/included in the weekend and it was her decision not to join.  I’ve also gotten tons of angry calls accusing me of talking about her to my mom.  She’ll say things like “Mom told me exactly what you said.  I can’t trust you.”  When my mom hadn’t even spoken to me or her recently so it’s clear she made it up. My sister won’t drop the issue and creates tons of drama out of nothing. Another recent one was her telling everyone she doesn’t comment on her kids’ weight or food choices bc it was so hurtful when our mother always made comments about her being over-weight growing up.  She and I were both super thin as kids and our mother never made comments about our weight.

It took me forever to learn that you can’t argue or reason with her, you just have to avoid her.[/quote]

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