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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you’re young enough with adequate grades from undergrad, go to a graduate program at an Ivy. Many people there are seeking their prospective spouses.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to struggle, I do not understand a lot of these responses. [/quote]

Same here. Maybe these are bitter people who feel that women like OP would reject them because they don't make a lot of money? Or wish they had found a spouse who made more money? What OP is doing is what a lot of UMC and UC parents did for their own kids - putting them in certain social circles, introducing them to certain families,  to make a "good march." In fact, I remember the old joke that so and so went to college to get her MRS degree.

I, in my modest MC way, chose my DH not just because of physical attraction,  personality,  commonalaties, character, and shared life goals but because he had a stable job that provided a good living making a bit more than me. It was important because we both were looking to have children in wedlock and to raise them without a lot of financial struggle. People need to be at least somewhat aware about what their potential partner makes or could make so they know if they can have the life (and lifestyle) you would like. that. Thing with sussing out if they have a lot of commercial debt and student loans,, if they are careless with spending,, if they have no plans to save for retirement. Financial strife is one of the main causes of divorce and it makes sense to want to avoid all that.[/quote]

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