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I can't handle my kids anymore.

They make messes everywhere and won't pick them up.  When I throw away their messes (paper, drawings left on the floor, etc.), they cry and scream at me.  I ask them to either put their dirty clothes in the hamper or in the hallway, but they stuff them under their beds or in the closet under the doll clothes.

They're in kindergarten and second grade.  They refuse to use the bathroom, even when it's really obvious they need to.  Second-grader keeps peeing their pants at school, kindergartner keeps peeing on the floor at home.

Every morning, they yell at me about something.  Either their hair bow isn't right, I missed up a project they had left on the floor, their breakfast had too many blueberries or the toast was too toasted.  Their outfit wasn't what they wanted - second-grader rejects outfit after outfit that I suggest.

I can't take the pee.  I can't take the yelling at me every day.  I don't want my kids anymore.  I'm a terrible mom and I just want to die.

But I'll end up just picking them up at school, listening to them yell at me if I don't have the window open just the right amount, and they'll insist I take them to dinner, since nothing I cook is good enough.  I was known for being a great, healthy cook for before these brats were born.

I just can't take it anymore.[/quote]

You need help, OP.

If your spouse is on the same page, you need to get a job that gets you out of the house, a good therapist for yourself and one for the family, and good live-in nanny who will deal with the kids' issues and teach you how to relate better at home.  The current situation is untenable, and I'm worried about both you and them.[/quote]

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