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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I instruct child (8, has not bathed in 2 days) to take a shower before he leaves the house with DH for the afternoon. DH is still in pajamas and cooking himself lunch, no indication they will leave in less than 30 minutes. DH gets in my face, saying “Why does he have to shower? He can shower tonight.” I try to ignore and continue getting kid to the bathroom. Kid is the type to need multiple prompts. DH continues insisting on showering later, raising his voice. I raise my voice and say “Kid is showering now, period. You’re clearly not leaving immediately.”

Obviously, terrible relationship. But how do I best handle this kind of sh*t (happens on the regular) with minimum conflict? DH is frequently unreasonable about totally normal things I want to do, will absolutely dig in. [/quote]

You were not in the right here.  Two days without a shower is no big deal unless he has been rolling around in the mud.  Just give your dh space so he can parent your child together.  Please apologize to your dh  Who cares if he wasn't leaving immediately?  Just go do your own thing when dh says he is going to do something with son.[/quote]
What you're saying is that if a husband disagrees with a wife, it's acceptable to get in her face and yell? Hell. No. [/quote]

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