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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A girl who is mature enough to be having intercourse is mature enough for a pelvic exam.

OP I think 14 is too young.  Can’t you keep her away from unsupervised contact with boyfriend? Until 16[/quote]

This is what my mom said to me. She didn’t even come into the building with me, she waited in the car. I referenced that moment 15 years later when she thought she had the right to come to my ultrasound appointments when I was pregnant (as a married adult).

I’d ask your daughter what she’s most comfortable with, OP. She’s being honest with you and trying to be responsible, even though it isn’t the decision you would make for her. Now that the situation is here, you can be supportive and loving and forgiving or you can leave her unsupported. [/quote]

I wouldn’t be supportive. Her life as she knows it would be completely over. She would be grounded and not leave the home without me until the day she turned18. Can’t be trusted.  Homeschool would start ASAP if she is in person.[/quote]

And your kid will leave get pregnant and never make anything of herself be in poverty with a child.

OP, on  the other hand, will have an intelligent, caring, daughter who will go to college get a great job, and grow up.

OP you are 100% doing the right thing.

Do not listen to the bible thumpers who are controlling and well frankly stupid. Teen pregnancy among bible thumpers high.

No one in their right mind thinks a 14-year-old should be having sex. But given it has already happened, OP is 100% correct. Good for you OP parenting at its finest. This could happen to every single one of us. If you think it can not you are not living in reality.

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“Parenting at its finest” means your 14 yr old doesn’t have a boyfriend and isn’t sexually active.  Sounds like her daughter only told her because she was afraid boyfriend’s mom was going to tell her first since the mom found the condom in his room.  Nothing good comes from a 14 yr old having sex, that right there alone is a huge problem- and it has absolutely nothing to do with religion[/quote]

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