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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]JLo is a diva who brings drama. She’s not motherly or nurturing. Ben wanted a traditional woman like his mom to take care of him and raise a family. Enter Garner. But he can’t be monogamous. He craves action. I’m sure there’s heat there. Why not have a little fun? Maybe it will last for a while? I bet Garner isn’t thrilled. [/quote] [b]That’s not how I remember it playing out. JLo and Ben split (due to paparazzi, addiction/gambling or whatever) and Jen G was the rebound. She was clearly gaga over Ben (as seen in the Dinner for Five episode with Jon Favreau). She became pregnant and he did the “honorable” thing and married her.[/b][/quote] Yes, this. 100%[/quote] How did he marry up with Jen G? J Lo will always look better and hotter than her! +1 - and I think he absolutely knew that he was marrying up with Jennifer Garner (no shade to JLo) even if he'd never admit it. If he gets back together with JLo and lets her run the show, I think that would be very good for him. Unfortunately, he seems to need to be the alpha male type in his relationships. [/quote][/quote] They’re saying this because Jen G is whiter. She’s also ‘more maternal’ when she let her kids be papped from here to white girl heaven constantly. Far bigger celebrities - and Lopez has always been more of that than Garner at her hottest- kept their kids largely private. Hell, Beyoncé is a billion times her celebrity and her children have never been stalked like the Garner-Afflecks. But Garner is a trade up! ((winks cutely, instagrams a pie crust recipe))[/quote] Garner put her career on hold to raise babies herself while JLo put off having babies and then left them behind with nannies while she continued to jet-set. Garner supported Affleck in getting sober and opted to coparent while allowing him to live in her guesthouse. She didn’t date boy toys. This has nothing to do with race. This has to do with personality and parenting. Garner brings no drama. She’s organized, stable and prioritizes her kids above herself and her career. That’s boring, but it’s solid. JLo is drama. She screams diva. She seems self-centered. Ben is self-centered, too. [/quote] Garner trapped him with the first pregnancy. I said what I said. [/quote]
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