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[quote=Anonymous]OP, one suggestion, especially if you have not fully processed things yourself and you are not sure if your reactions will be completely supportive in the moment, be honest with your daughter.  She's a young adult and she will understand.  Start by saying what others have said, that you love her unconditionally and want to be as supportive as you can.  Then be honest and say that you are still processing what she's told you yourself and that she should not judge you by your reactions.  Assure her that you will be as supportive as possible, even if your initial reactions to anything she says catch you off guard.  I knew someone who did that and she found that her gay son was not only understanding but in turn was able to check his reactions and they were mutually able to get through his young years together and they felt like a team.  He was able to understand and sometimes provide her resources that friends' parents used.  She said their relationship was actually significantly better after his coming out and their talk and her honesty than they had been before.  Her son is all grown up and they still have a strong relationship.

If you are honest about your reactions but committed to being supportive, you may find that you and your daughter can give each other strength and support through the journey.  Good luck.[/quote]

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