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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My wedding time was extremely stressful and traumatic. We were a mixed race-interfaith couple and neither set of families were happy about our union. We also did not have money for a wedding. We put something together last minute and it was stressful and just not fun. If I could do it over, I'd have just eloped. [/quote] Mixed race couple here too. Awful wedding for the same reason — unsupportive relatives. One of the saddest days of my life. I’ve been burdened with hateful white in laws ever since and the marriage is totally not worth having to tolerate these people’s existence. I do my best to dissuade people of color from getting married to white people now.[/quote] So all white people are bigots because your inlaws are? OK. :roll: [/quote] PP here. It’s not worth dealing with the many of you who are overt, covert, active aggressive, passive aggressive, and other variations of racist. Those of you who consider yourself the “good ones” almost never are. Life’s too short to waste on people who have such unearned privilege, yet are inculcated with such hate. You can be mad if you want.[/quote] You have your own issues with hate and bigotry, honey. [/quote]
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