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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought intj was the rarest- that’s me. I’m a designer, married.

I probably have adhd. I analyze things try to understand things, I enjoy it like figuring out a puzzle. I used to be terrible at maintaining any kind of healthy habits or routines, but I recently have found something that’s working for me. I enjoy my friends and family but in doses. I enjoy my time alone and would never run out of hobbies and curiosities to keep my interest. I love my kids and they also exhaust me because they are always asking things of me throughout the day. [/quote]

I’m an INTJ.  I’ve heard it’s the rarest for women, not sure if it’s the rarest overall.  I probably also have ADHD.  I’m an attorney and am in management. I am a problem-solver.  I’m told that I have great leadership skills.  I expect a lot from myself and from others.  I am highly disciplined, which leads to healthy habits. I always think with my head, not my heart, which can cause others to think I’m cold.  I tell my friends and family I’m the person they should call if they have a problem that needs to be fixed, but if you want a shoulder to cry on, I’m not your girl.  I feel the same as you about my kids- I love them, but they exhaust me.[/quote]

People like this are my kryptonite (INFJ here). I have song strong, intense feelings, and personalities like this are so invalidating. It makes me feel crazy. I also find that often people like this have feelings, but choose not to be in touch with them. Sometimes that leads to behavior they think is “rational” but is really an expression of emotion they are refusing to acknowledge. It’s very frustrating. And if you try to connect on an emotional level, they will reject you because they require an intellectual explanation for everything. It’s so difficult[/quote]

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