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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.
He asked for an accounting of dollar amounts each of us has put into the joint accounts.
We did it.
It wasn’t a wildly different amount. In fact, I put in more.

Today’s schedule is a typical one- I do 6 hours of childcare. He will do 5. Currently he’s at the gym.
We agreed to seek out childcare ASAP.[/quote]
Again, you are the good one and he is the bad one. Does it ever occur to you that you have a husband? A partner in life? That you and him, ought to see each other as human beings, with faults, strengths, trials? That this penny pinching is insane? Counting the hours of daycare is insane too.
If you can see your dh as a human being with all that comes with it, and if he is so terrible ad being a dh and a dad, divorce him. Why are you in this relationship?

How about you list things that are good about him? Is there a single thing about you that you are able to admit is not great and that he might find that just as much of an obstacle as you find his issues? If the answer is no, then you are delusional.
Plus, what is his job? How much does he earn if anything? Why be so vague?[/quote]

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