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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just curious, why don't you have kids? You've been married 9 years. Are you not planning on having children (which BTW, I think is A-OK!!!).[/quote] Several reasons. 1) I have a medical condition which my high risk OB (when I went for a consult) said could likely lead to complications with the pregnancy, and I don't know if I want to deal with this, 2) Having no family here and with DH working so much concerns me re: raising a child, 3) I've been on the fence about kids for years, 4) DH and I have so little time together now, that I worry how a child would negatively affect our marriage, 5) I'm not a kid person, and I've never had the "baby itch," 6) I don't feel I'm in the right "place" for kids right now. I have other issues (including the loneliness) that I'd like to resolve first.[/quote] Good for you, I wish all people would put these real considerations first before having children.[/quote]
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