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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Ok, what if he said, "thanks for the interest. However, although you have a lovely face, you are heavyset and large-boned, and I prefer thin women. Best of luck." Would people find that rude?

Your steadfast determination to take offense doesn't make the email offensive.[/quote]

You're not answering the question, which is, do you think this is offensive, and if so, how is it different than what the guy said?[/quote]

I've answered the question plenty of times.  You are desperate to think that tall is the same as fat, heavyset, horse-like, all manner of things that include a negative judgment.  Tall is not an insult.  I am a tall woman and being called "not petite" is not in any way the same as being called "heavyset" or "big boned" or "horse-like" or "looks like an alien" or whatever you're going to come up with next.  It's not mean to call a woman tall.  That's the end of the sentence.

That you are so bothered by the comment means you have some kind of hangup about your height.  I'm sorry for that.  But the guy didn't insult you, and the more you rant the more clear it is that he dodged a bullet.[/quote]

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