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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is something my DH would say. What he won’t tell you is that he is a church mouse and never advocates for himself or his family.  He always leaves something unfinished, forgets to mention xyz, etc. I often have to follow up or do it myself. I have a demanding career. He does not. He buckles under pressure every time and it’s frustrating. He’s sweet and gentle and kind so I understand that but it’s still frustrating sometimes.  I do love him and understand our different approaches. I’m the high achiever and have told him that I just can’t turn that off at home. He wanted a wife who worked and he got one along with the personality required to be a high achieving female in the business world.[/quote]

This is exactly the scenario I'm imagining. My husband is always the nice guy because he doesn't like confrontation. So I have to be the one who makes sure stiff gets done and we don't get taken advantage of. Frankly I'm like the PP who has coffee and snacks for ppl who work in our house but if you arent being professional (as the counterparties in both OP's examples weren't), then I'm going to ler you know that I expect better. My husband would never give me a hard time.about this because he knows this saves him being the bad guy.

This OP seems more worried about other people's feelings instead of his own  family. [/quote]

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