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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Nobody got off the couch for anyone but themselves.

This is who she is. She's not as active as you like, nor as fit as you like, and she's fine with that.

How much of a priority is it to you? Only you know the answer. I have some friends who are very active and it's one of the top traits they looked for in a spouse. I get it. It's a compatibility issue. You either take her for who she is, or you decide you want out. That's really the only thing in your control.[/quote]

OP here. It was not a make or break issue when we got together, so it isn't now either. Actually, I would have said it was a dealbreaker for me if you had asked me prior to meeting DW, 
but I couldn't imagine my life without her once I met her. I can accept it if that ends up being the only option, but also feel it's worth a try. I see her being frustrated about the weight but despite my support, she doesn't seem to commit to any type of behavior change long-term which would fix the issue. It confuses me.[/quote]

Who you married is who you get. This is the male equivalent of "I can change him."[/quote]

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