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[quote=Anonymous]You know how when there is a serious injury the body reacts by sending all the blood to the vital organs because that is what matters most and what is needed to keep you going? That's the situation you are in. I know a lot of people are bashing your husband but the reality is that you cannot control another person so sure ask him to step up but if he doesn't then you have to think about what YOU can do. First I would let go of ideas of how things used to be done or how they should be done. Right now, good enough is good enough. So if the baby isn't bathed every day it is fine. If the floors aren't mopped as frequently as you like, fine. If you are dressing the children in wrinkled clothes that now live on the sofa, totally fine. Order in more meals and use paper plates to save on clean up. Put any and all energy into things you can realistically change and just let go of those that you cannot. Meditate - it works and it helps, it really truly does, even 10 mins a day. Try to shift your mindset to focus on what you have not what you lack. When you spend time looking for the good, you often find a lot of it. I know it is hard and it all seems impossible but it isn't. Deep breaths. You can do this. [/quote]
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