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[quote=Anonymous]What about shifting your focus from him, to yourself?  Picture your best life.  Make a plan to get there.  Your current plan is hinging too much on him--what if you do all of the things you've planned and he STILL doesn't propose?  Then your time was wasted.

Even if he does propose that doesn't ensure that he'll be hurt or crushed if you say no.  You cannot control how he reacts.  Period.  You CAN control how you react.  You're hurting so do something about that.

You can do this, OP.  You can build a life where you aren't waiting on anyone else to make a move that you're ready for.

Personally I'd give it one last shot of telling him that I'm ready to make a commitment and if he's not then I'm going to start planning for my future.  Then I'd do just that but without telling him about it. I'd make it about me--what I wanted, getting those things, moving forward and the key is not to have one single part of it be about how HE is going to react.

It's all about YOU, OP.  Get started![/quote]

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