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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. All 3 kids are in single digits, but beyond diapers. After a full day I’m exhausted. I’ve had enough touching and at that point I don’t feel like being touched more is at all relaxing. Seems unnatural to force it and DH doesn’t seem to appreciate when I do it but I’m barely into it. [/quote]

DH here, you will hate me but I will be honest- you are doomed.  I did this for years, the constant chasing, her rejection, then I stopped chasing, we dwindled to once a month or less, then I cheated, and she caught me and we are in a really bad place.

In hindsight, I shouldn't have cheated.  It's going to be really, really hard to repair this now.

Here's the part I never understood:  how hard is it to carve out 30 minutes a week to be fully present with your DH sexually?  I mean, tell him to take kids to the park, put them to bed, clean the whole house if you need it.  Whatever it takes, he will jump through the hoop.  I did, until it became clear it was a chore.

Good luck.[/quote]

I'm always curious what happens years later in these situations. I get the impression that the ones who want more sex, find partners later that are a better match. But what happens to the exes with low desire? Do they find new partners and end up having more sex, too, or do they just end up alone and happily sexless?[/quote]

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