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[quote=Anonymous]When my kids were little and I left my husband to watch them, he fell asleep and they wandered outside of the apartment/house multiple times. This wasn't because I hadn't done everything I could to stress to him that this was not an acceptable way to parent. He just sucked. Now they're older and we did a lot of relationship therapy eventually and he's a lot better. And, luckily, nothing dangerous ever happened to the kids. (There were other things. Once I came back and the kids had gotten into a bunch of pills, and they were scattered on the floor, and my husband had not noticed and acted like I was nagging him.) You really could leave your shitty partner with your young kids and something very bad could happen. There's no good way to handle that. Leaving them isn't good, either, because then they'll probably want partial custody and have more opportunities to accidentally kill your kids. And, also, they legitimately might get better over time, and your kids will get more independent. [/quote]
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