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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Advice from my mom, married 48 years:
“ even though you might be tired or not in the mood, just go along with it. Most of the time you’ll find that you do get interested as things move along.”

Also, sex gets better with age if you’re open to talking about it. Definitely read these books:

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner) https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060538260/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_api_i_eQdgFbAH71WPZ

And

Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Kerner) https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060834390/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_XQdgFb1C4TWDR

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No disrespect to your mom, but I think this a little old fashioned. Like a good woman puts her needs after everyone else's.

Your fatigue is just as valid as his desire. [/quote]

DP but I read that mom's advice as realizing that she (like many women) experiences responsive desire.  I am high drive but even when I'm not in the mood if I'm not actively pissed at DH I'll go along because I know that I'll get into it in a minute or two.  Not because his desire trumps mine but because my desire responds to his.[/quote]

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