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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote] DP. Kids are capable of understanding that grandma is different than a stranger or even the lady next door. When you teach in absolutes you do more harm than good.[/quote] Kids are most likely to be sexually abused by someone known to them. It is understandably too confusing for them to sort our, say, grandma’s secret from abusive uncle’s secret. [b]They cannot judge which one is not okay.[/b][/quote]Unless you are talking about a toddler to 4 year they sure can know the difference. Well, that assumes you have had the right kind of honest talk with them. FWIW, I was sexually abused as a child and that kind of discussion hadn't happened. I didn't make that mistake with my children. They were forewarned (informed in such a way that it didn't instill fear) and therefore forearmed.[/quote]
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