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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Before we married DH told me that if I ever had an affair he did not want me to tell him. He said it was selfish to hurt the other person with that information.[/quote] I have the same agreement with my spouse. I only want to know if they are planning on leaving me. I wonder if we are in a silent majority. What do I gain by finding out, other than the pain described above and the daunting decision to divorce or live with it[/quote] They won’t tell you that. The woman my husband started the AM affair with was all about “it’s just sex”. All loosely goosey, look how carefree and progressive I am. He was her third ling affair. Her MO was a year or more in to profess love and push for running away together. Her husband has no idea she wants out. If he’s one of these “I don’t care, don’t tell me unless u plan on leaving”, he is for a rude awakening. People with that type of arrangement have zero self-respect. Doormats.[/quote]
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