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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I bet you op and her wife are nuts about sugar and grandma gave granddd an ice cream! If it is something like that what is sad is that grandma feels she needs to keep it a secret something so innocent. Most likely bcs she knows her own grandma and DIL will overact like nuts. Or, the horror she gave kid some fruit! We all know lunatics on dcum who deny their kids fruit bcs it has sugar! [/quote]

You're reading a lot into this and it's irrelevant.

I'll grant you there are DCUM mons that I think go way overboard avoiding sugar and OPs wife may be one.  While I'm not particularly sensitive on the sugar issue, I have my own areas of concern that you might well think nuts.  I imagine that you have parenting concerns on something that OP might well think are overboard.

Whether a parent's concerns are valid is not the question.  Anybody entrusted with a child should make a good-faith effort to respect the parents wishes.  If they disagree,  the right course of action is to talk directly to the parent.  They could ask for an exemption.  They can even state  how things will be when they're in charge (at which point the parent can decide whether they're willing to leave that person in charge of their child.)  To undermine a parents authority and to entangle the child in a cover-up is wrong on every level.[/quote]

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