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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. My husband doesn’t know I am aware of his mistress. I just learned myself and now trying to see if I can live with that. No “body access” is required on his part. I feel terrible without someone to lean to at night but at the same time have no time or desire to go outside marriage for that.

Both mistress and I are European, we are both equally educated and I was employed first 2 years of marriage until we got our sons  diagnosis. I feel really depressed now, not because of him, but because while I was tied up at home with our son, he used these years to build a start up company with his mistress. He groomed her to become an executive from initially low position. Gave her love and expensive gifts while being an asshole  at home. She got the best of him and her life. And I became a total loss professionally.

Which is why I wonder if I should at least try to go for an extra masters degree at his expense now? There is limited hiring now, and many companies first taje for telework positions. But I really feel need to communicate with people, go to real office or real school to get away from it all.

And yes, I am stashing some money. [/quote]

There’s a lot of ridiculous people on here. If he’s rich and you’re leading separate lives and you have a SN child to take care of, you do what’s best for you and your son. That quite likely means staying married, spending his money, and getting that degree. Divorcing now is standing on a principle that ultimately makes you worse off. [/quote]

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