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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. He doesn’t press for a divorce. It’s his goal as well to get our son into a good college and not stress out already vulnerable teenager. Now during pandemics he out of a sudden began parenting. We are just de-facto separated, not sharing bedroom, only have lunch together but mostly he spends day in his part of the house and I live in mine. Don’t tell don’t ask family.

Would you live in marriage like that for the duration of becoming more financial sustainable by possibly getting a degree financed by future ex husband (in 4 years), getting kids into college and higher payout in divorce? Am I a person without morals myself for not filing for a divorce proudly and instead just working on my own life and case against him ? [/quote]

I think its fine to live that way and not divorce if it meets your needs.  Its best for your son to have both parents and this is easiest.  But, know at any time he can ask for a divorce so I would make sure money is put in your name only.[/quote]

I agree but money in your name only is not safe as it’s community property.  Build cash, tangible assets like gold/jewels and hide it safe for future use.  Open a UTGA custodial investment account for your son.  Invest for the future.  [/quote]

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